A day in the life of Linda Eyles
I have been a celebrant now for almost 10 years. When my Mum died I had a really good rapport with the funeral director and thought this is something I would love to do. I did my investigation and found The Celebrant School with Mary Hancock. After completing my Certificate in Celebrant studies, I then started my journey.
I was Auckland Branch Chair for 2 years some years back, a role I thoroughly enjoyed. Now I am on the committee of a fairly new branch in Northland.
I officiate at both weddings and funerals although weddings are my main focus.
I love what I do, writing unique ceremonies for wonderful people both past and present. Because of this, I have grown as a person drawing on the knowledge and skills I have procured over the years.
On the day, one has to be prepared for the unexpected and therefore, being adaptable & professional at all times is very important.
My most memorable ceremony was for my brother and his husband. They were able to unite as a married couple not long after the law change came about.
When I have a ceremony to perform, I devote virtually the whole day to it. Making sure I am fully prepared, a check list at hand. Making myself presentable in a professional manner is very important to me and I think you owe it to the ceremony at hand. I always arrive in plenty of time to get in the zone and set up.
In your pre ceremony interview always make sure you are aware of all the facts, & listen. If there is a difficult name to pronounce, I always do my own phonetic spelling so no errors on the day. Make sure you have a plan A & B – have copy of ceremony in your folder or Ipad (although I prefer the art of ceremony and have a Celebrant Association silver folder) & a spare copy in your bag. A spare pair of tights & sewing kit are must haves!!
I still work part time in Property Management, enjoy Zumba, playing golf (always the good, the bad & the ugly) & voluntary work in the community. My greatest joy in life is spending time with my 8yr old grandson.
