Ayyam O’Brien

Kia ora koutou katoa, I’m Ayyam O’Brien.

Originally from Auckland and now proudly based in Rolleston, Christchurch, I’m a New Zealand marriage celebrant who believes that every ceremony should feel genuine, meaningful, and deeply personal.

I became a celebrant because I’m a true romantic at heart. I love witnessing two people choose one another and take that powerful step into commitment. For me, the ceremony isn’t just a formality — it’s the moment where your love story is honoured, shared, and celebrated in a way that feels completely you.

My priority is getting to know my couples and understanding what matters most to them. Your journey, your values, your culture, your laughter, and even the challenges you’ve overcome all shape the ceremony I create. That’s how I craft personalised ceremonies that feel heartfelt, relaxed, and full of warmth — never scripted or generic.

I bring a calm, friendly, and positive energy to every celebration, helping you feel supported and confident throughout the process. With a background in community work, public speaking, and MCing, I’m comfortable guiding moments big and small, always with care and authenticity.

Outside of celebrant life, I’m also a teacher who adores working with tamariki and seeing young people grow into themselves. I’m a proud mum to my two beautiful children, Charm and Leo, and have been married to my soulmate, Chris, for over eleven years. Family, connection, and love sit at the centre of everything I do — and that naturally flows into the ceremonies I create.

If you’d like to see more of my work or get a feel for my style, you can find me on social media — just click the Facebook or Instagram icons to connect with me directly. I would be honoured to hear your story and be part of such a special moment in your lives.